Margaret Trudeau – The Time of Your Life

66 year old author, sometime actress and former First Lady of Canada Margaret Trudeau, is a grandmother 7 times over. Her new memoir and 4th published book, The Time of Your Life: Choosing a Vibrant, Joyful Future is at once a story of her life and advice on how to grow older, handling the transition from middle age to senior citizen. Safe to say she’s not your average grandma. 

Margaret grew up with a politician in the family – her father James Sinclair served both as a Canadian Liberal Member of Parliament (MP) and as Minister of Fisheries and Oceans. In 1966, while vacationing in Tahiti at age 18, Margaret met 47-year-old Pierre Trudeau (then Canada’s Minister of Justice). Although she didn’t recognize him, he was smitten by her. Back in Canada, he courted her – in between becoming 15th Prime Minister of Canada in 1968 and dating Barbra Streisand.

They married in 1971 when she was 22 and had their first of 3 sons (Justin, now leader of the Canadian Liberal Party since 2013) later that year, followed by Alexandre (Sacha; now a reporter) in 1973 and Michel in 1975.

She’s known her share of life’s ups and downs since then, starting with the disintegration of her marriage to Pierre Trudeau; hardly surprising given the two very different, strong-willed personalities involved. Margaret’s drug use, high-profile flirtations with The Rolling Stones band members, and an affair with Ted Kennedy, didn’t help. She was already suffering from bipolar depression (not diagnosed until much later in her life) when they separated in 1977. Pierre won custody of their three young children, while Margaret struggled to earn a living without spousal support (financial or otherwise from Trudeau); her first book Beyond Reason (1979) about their marriage, was followed by Consequences in 1982. They finally divorced in 1984.

Margaret married second husband Fried Kemper in 1984 and their first child, son Kyle was born late that year; daughter Alicia followed in 1988.

A period of relative calm and un-newsworthy times followed for Margaret, until the sad death of son Michel Trudeau in a 1998 (an avalanche sank his boat). She and Pierre were both devastated, and Margaret suffered a second mental breakdown that effectively ended her marriage to Kemper (they divorced in 1999). In 2000 Pierre Trudeau (who had been suffering from Parkinson’s Disease and prostrate cancer for some time) died, Margaret and their two remaining sons at his side.

In 2006 Margaret publicized her own bipolar disorder; she is now an honorary patron of the Canadian Mental Health Association and speaks about reducing the stigma of mental illness. Her 3rd book in 2007, Changing My Mind, chronicled her personal experience with bipolar disorder. Today she lives in Montreal to be nearer to her remaining sons with Trudeau, Justin and Alexandre, and her grandchildren.

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April 2015

In a 2015 interview with Robert Sibley (full Ottawa Citizen article here), Margaret said women become increasingly “invisible” as they age into their 50’s and 60’s….the plus side being that there is a freedom that comes with that invisibility. She also referenced baby boomers entering old age, saying “We are the biggest aging population ever, and there’s not going to be enough public housing, enough home care…so many women will be living in poverty if we don’t have the needed services“.

Some parting thoughts courtesy of Margaret:

Women should prepare in their fifties for the rest of their lives. What we do today will affect how long we live, how healthy we will be, where we will live, how much fun we will have, how solvent we will be. The foundation for the rest of our lives is built on choices we make, and the actions we take in mid-life.

 “The gift of getting older is that we can look back and gain understanding on the triumphs and tragedies, large and small, of our lives with a depth that we might not have been capable of when they happened.

Margaret Trudeau, The Time of Your Life: Choosing a Vibrant, Joyful Future

3 thoughts on “Margaret Trudeau – The Time of Your Life”

  1. Tilda Fields says:

    “Oh! What a tangled web we weave, when first we practice to deceive.”

    This woman is still in denial, now using bi-polar as an excuse in her quest to make herself feel better about her life. She needs to admit that she alone screwed-up her life big time. Just like every one else, she alone is responsible for the choices she made in life and she has to live with the consequences of her choices. She was a spoiled child and a rebellious teen who chose to use drugs and whore around rather than get a good education and find employment which would have given her purpose. She “…took to marijuana like a duck took to water” as a young teen and proceeded to cocaine, peyote, acid and whatever else she could find to “self medicate”. The “imbalance in her mind” she felt during her years at Simon Fraser is most likely a result of a drug infused trip to Morocco and prior drug and alcohol use. That “She didn’t understand the role she’s taken on in marrying him and becoming the wife of the Prime Minister of Canada.” Malarkey! She could have stopped her rebellious ways and drug use as Pierre had asked her to at the time of their engagement. She could have looked to her own family for guidance. She is a disgrace to her four sisters who have gone into hiding because of her. She had the world in her hands for a brief second when she became the wife of the prime minister but she chose to continue being rebellious, use drugs and screw around with anyone that would have her. I could go on and on and on but I’m going crazy. Here’s a little poem written in the Globe & Mail back in 1979.

    Oh Maggie dear we thee implore
    To go away and write no more
    Or if that effort be too great
    To go away at any rate

  2. Eleanor White says:

    Tilda,
    Those are some strong opinions to have about a person other than yourself. I think you would be happier concentrating on yourself and not on others. Yes, I know, she wrote the book and put herself out there, but perhaps there is something–anything–we can glean from her experiences that can be applied to our own lives. At the end of the day we are all just people, doing the best we can.

  3. Chris says:

    Tilda. Seriously educate yourself on mental illness before going on a ridiculous rant. Nobody cares what you think.

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